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writes:I met a guy recently. Although it was a very vague meeting. We were at the same party. He introduced himself, and we didn't really talk the rest of the night all though he did sit next to me at one point before getting kicked out of that spot. I had to leave early, so I didn't have a real chance to talk to him. So I added him on facebook. I messeged him, to maybe start a conversation started and he mentioned how he's glad I had a good time at the party and how hed like to catch up when he comes back. But I'm only 18, and I can't tell what a guy my age means or wants let alone an early 20s guy wants. So is from what I told you does that sound like he might be interested? And if so, should I go hang with him alone for the first time? Or what? And if he is interested, what kind of thing does a 20 something want? And I'm also a virgin. So I'm somewhat worried about that aspect . Not only with him, but if I meet a guy one of my friend is friend with from uni. Help?
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reader, Twistedbaby420  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 I'd say there is a good chance he is interested, he sounds like he wants to get to know you better at least, otherwise he probably wouldn't have wrote you back. If you already have wrote back, let him initiate further contact with you, because if he's really interested, he will do so.
I wouldn't just go over to his place to hang out first thing (since it doesn't sound like you know him that well and also he might just want to hook up then), but would try to find something random and fun the two of you could do together.
I don't know how you feel about being a virgin, but I personally don't think it should be an issue at this time. I would date someone exclusively for awhile and make sure you genuinely trust them (or better yet, love them) before you worry about that coming up. And if the guy you decide to give your virginity to has been sexually active, make sure he gets tested and use a condom!
He probably wants a girl who is a lot of fun, but is also smart and can be serious, and is doing something with her life (going to school, working, motivated in some way!). Someone who isn't too clingy... never make your life revolve around a boy and always make sure you have time alone with your friends, and that he has time alone with his.
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