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writes:I've been in love with a girl for almost three years. We have been pretty good friends, but then last year she did not come back to school. She had told me her parents might make her switch high schools but sort of pushed that from my mind. That was two years ago. I have not seen or spoken to her since then, but i recently found she started dating someone else. I suppose an accurate description of the feeling I have is despair. Never before have I felt so helpless. Long ago I deleted her cell number in hopes of forgetting about her but we can see how well that worked out. I suppose the is happy now and has forgotten all about me. Why can't I do the same? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): I will also add that i dont know why she is being like this towards you and if she wants to be like that its her problem not yours you never know she might call you oneday life can be full of suprisers but dont bet on it too much like i said just try to take life day by day try not to worry to much about things that are out of your control
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Im sorry to hear that you are heart broken and still in love with her even though you have not spoken or herd from for a very long time. Sometimes it takes longer for some people to get over someone it depends on the person and also how much you are in love with this person 2 years is a long time not to get over someone but its normal like i said it can take years and years to get over someone for some people like yourself but i guess you just got to take it day by day and give yourself time to heal even if it takes a long time to get over it just have fath in yourself that you will get over her soner or later remember there are plenty more fish in the sea!! But in some cases it can be very hard to try to get over it on your own here are things that can help: - get support off friends that you can trust to talk to about things getting things off your chest instead of keeping it all inside of you can help - there are many books that give advice on getting over your ex that can give you really good advice that it is what you needed to help you with the healing process it has been known to really help people out - you might want to go and see a experience counsellor they can really help there are also self help groups people who are going though what you are going though and good luck and hope you find true love someday take it easy bye
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