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reader, Shaunaaa' +, writes (12 August 2009):
well theres a 19 age gap, yeahh age is a number but say if you get married, 2oo years along the line ur 60 hes 41, if you are sure of it and think he wont cheat with a younger women, then whatever go for it what ever makes you happy..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): you see interested as well but just be careful. sometimes the yound guys feel that they can get a mrs robertson for a while. but if you feel comfortable with him, having a drink and supper is a start. but please do not sleep with him immedialtely. just do your homework with him, is he truly ineterted in you or does he hust want to boast that he did it with a much older woman. i think young guys have this milf concept down to a tee. well whatever happens, just enjoy the experience. at least you can chalk it down to experience if it doesn't go according to plan.good luck.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (10 August 2009):
 You are probably a conquest for him. Many a young man have ideas in their heads, put there by Playboy and their Dads that tell them to just once have sex with an older woman. I wouldn't expect the relationship to be more than just a one or two time thing. If you're up for it, it could be fun. But he's going to want women his own age for many obvious reasons so enjoy yourself if you want, but I wouldn't read too much into it.
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reader, Joe2009  +, writes (9 August 2009):
If you like him, date him. It it feels right, then go for it. I grew up under the belief that the male should be older and thought a 3 or 4 year age difference was a wide spread. BS. AGE SHOULD NEVER BE A FACTOR (minors under 18 and taking advantage of someone because of their lack of knowledge is exluded).Currently I am seeing a female that is 10 years older than I. Her husband, who passed away over 5 years ago, was 20 years her age. She says she is too old for me. I looked at her and told her and your point is what? Look who you married. In my eyes I do not see your age as you says it is, I see a beautiful young female. Since I have been dating her, that young female keeps coming out more and more with me.LET THE AGE FACTOR DROP, AND GO FOR IT, you may be surprised to see your youthfulness spirit come back.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 August 2009):
If you like him and wants the same thing that he wants (just sex or a relationship) then go for it.
If you don't like him then let him down gently.
If you like him but he just wants sex and you want a boyfriend then tell him to bugger off.
If you like him but just for a shag, and he wants to marry you then let him VERY gently.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, young and opinionated +, writes (9 August 2009):
 well, do you like him?If so, then what does he want from you? a relationship? or just sex?and what do you want from him?Think about all these questions and if you both want the same thing, then go for it!but if it is a relationship you both, just bare in mind that even though it can work out if you love each other, people may frown apon it. Best of luck!
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