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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dated a guy for about a year.. I lost my virginity to him and we even ended up moving in together,Forever the case may be we or I went through soo much shyt with him because my parents dissaproved.. At the time i was young and he was older and had a whole lot of experience about life!! I lied to him numerous time about random things not necessarily important. I didnt realize how important he was to me until he wasnt in my life anymore.. Since then over 3 yrs have passed we spent every holiday together after we broke up and he would come over my apt and spend hours together,talk on the phone forever but wouldnt sleep with me.(for 3 yrs). He says he doesnt trust me but ive tried to be honest, i was so honest he asked me how many people i slept with after him, and i figured i could be truthful.Now people dnt think crazy. Im a young girl just enjoying my life.. He was super mad and said he was dissapointed in me, since then its been 5 mths and he hasnt spoken to me. I called once and text him twice saying Hello but he wont talk to me. What should i do?? should i let it be.. I dnt understand why he acts that way its not like i cheated!He wouldnt Sleep with me..I mean was i supposed to keep setting myself up for rejection?? And he wasnt sleepig with me so i knw he had somebody else!! I kept trying to tell him i wanted to be with him but he wouldnt really budge. I mean i swear hes like bipolar.. I've moved to another state to get away from everything that reminds me of him.. I left my job,friends even family to start over but i cant help wondering why he wont talk to me??? I feel this has a total hold on my life.. I think about him even than i did and thats a lot! I told myself id give it a year but im afraid thats too long.. Should i ttry calling and leaving a message or i dnt knw? what shou i do i really love him!!
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