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*effinerRosie
writes:I recently cheated on my boyfriend, we didn't go all the way. I really like the guy and he likes me, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): i recently found out the love of my life cheated on me. we have been together for 4 years and she has been with like 10 people since we have been together. its the worst feeling ever i dont know what to do but honestly i wish she would have left me before she decided to break my heart. i cheated on her in the beginning of our relationship and i hurt her but i swear i stopped. Shortly after i found out she cheated on me and thats when i stopped, because i finally felt her pain from when i had cheated. anyways i have no intrest of being with anyone else anyways. i love her that much. She is my heart and my anchor. i am only 22 years old but have been to hell and back with her, but finding out all this shit she did behind my back. Sleeping with someone else and then kissing me and telling me she loves me? thats crazy, and really painful. I dont know what to do because i know i will never be able to love anyone else like i love her. I dont want to let go of her because i want to believe she wont hurt me again. But i dont want to look like a sucker, a chump. she cant continue to hurt me, auctually wats really scary is that she could hurt me alot more. but i just love her so much. so after hearing me cry about my love life think about your boyfriend and dont break his heart. if anything your not ready to be involved with this person if u want to be with someone else. remember what i said before. still after everything my girlfriend has done to me i have no intrest of being with anybody else. And i will never cheat on her again. i hope you make the right decision. good luck.
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reader, JeffinerRosie +, writes (9 August 2009):
JeffinerRosie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have felt for a while that I'm growing apart from my boyfriend, we don't really speak anymore. This new guy, I can talk to and feel connected with, we sort of 'clicked'. I feel happier around him than I do my boyfriend.
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reader, lisa t.  +, writes (9 August 2009):
Sounds to me like the attraction to this knew guy is physical. Are you emotionally attached to him? You have to ask yourself whick guy makes your heart happy.I am a married woman but i have a sexual partner other than my husband but its just sex. Im not attracted to my lovers personality or sense of humor or any of that. I like how he pleasese sexually and thats it. The one i want to be with at the end of the day is my husband. If one guy does it for you physically and the other does it emotionally, then hey, have your cake and eat it too! You are young honey enjoy yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): well, its like this, what you've done already is wrong, but you didn't go all the way. Thats a plus. Look at bit this way. If you don't care anymore for him than to do that to the person you're with, then you shouldn't even be with him.And as far as this person you're talking about, if he knows you have a B/F, he's just as guilty. And what makes you think he wont cheat on you too since he obviuosly don't respect a relationship. I think you should tell your B/F you need your space and you think the two of you should be free to see other people becuase you're soo young.If you ever cared for the guy, don't continue this behind his back at the very least because 1 it could get back to him, and 2 you wouldn't want it done to you.
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reader, katejessica  +, writes (9 August 2009):
Break up with him.
He deserves to know the truth and not be with you.
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