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writes:Okay so i have liked this guy for quite a while now. i told him i liked him a while ago. Now... he had a girlfriend and still does. She puts him through hell, and i have to listen to it all the time. not that i care though. i would do anything for him. Then a few weeks ago he said the world may never know, about him liking me. But i kinda can tell he does. But he said he will tell me one day, and how when i does it would al make sense. What should i dooo?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): If he wanted to be with you he would be hun.
watch the movie he's just not that into you.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (9 August 2009):
Until he leaves his gf and is honest and up front with you theres not a lot you can do. I respect that you love him but right now he cant see that and your love is wasted so the best thing you could do is to cool it off for a while, i mean the simple things like spending less time with him, it sounds strange but if hes genuine about how he feels toward you and he sees you moving on with your life faster than he wants hes likely to be honest with you and time will make him see whats always been there. When a person leaves your life and starts to move on with their own you notice the little things more such as them being there for you to talk to etc, he needs to share his issus but he should be doing that with his gf. The best thing you could do is start and make progress in your own lofe, if he likes you he wont let you go and hell tell you how hes feeling.
You cant put you life on hold witing for that one day, its unfair for him ti make false promises and indicate he has feelings only to crush them by remaining with his gf. Hes only holding back because he either really actually loves his gf or he knows that hes wrong and having feelings for you whilst with someone.
Your not in a position to do anything, its him and until he does i suggest you move on and make him see or simply break it off and begin a new without him.
It hurts when someone doesnt love you back but you have to accept it to find who you are and to move on yourself.
I havent explained this in the best light possible, apolagies for that, but i feel deep down you know that theres nothing you can do until he does, dont live your life waiting for another in hope of the what ifs, love shouldnt do that.
Best of luck
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