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writes:Hi there...Well I dont really need help!...I know what to do,I have been thru this kind of experience...But I feel like I need to scream,to cry,to explode...So I had this bf for almost 2 years,and we also work together.So one day I spied his cellphone(I know it´s a very sick thing to do...),and guess what? I found out he was having really sweet conversations with his ex...One of the messages I read was from her,thanking him for a flower he gave her...Hell!! My heart stopped at that moment...So I tried to forget about it...But I just couldn't .It kept hurting and hurting deeper and deeper. So we broke up. And now he wants to explain himself...What the heck is there to explain?So I know time will heal my heart, but meanwhile I just carry around this wounded heart,and it hurts so much...And working with him makes things even worse...Any advice? Thanks if you read all my sadness.....
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reader, Felina +, writes (21 August 2009):
Felina is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the help!Well,i ve decided to brake up with him...I was always so hurt and insecure....Oh well,life goes on,and im feeling much better now .
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reader, aprilfools  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 Oh no!Don't you just hate men?my fiancee has done this to me before when we were first together (I think all guys do...) and I have emotional problems and bad anxiety so I overreact when I'm going through something like that so I probably would have said something revolting lol...But I've always forgave my fiance bc what is love without forgiveness? I think it shows that you truly love them when you forgive them, and they usually end up noticing it as well.My fiancee used to be the biggest punk ever. He's hurt me several times, but I've always forgave him (sometimes it took a very long time though)and when he opened his eyes and realized what he had and how sttupid he was he started paying back the love i've given him.Now i couldn't ask for a better guy =]I believe that everyone deserves a second chance bc he may really regret this and maybe he's realized what he's done and how stupid he was for hurting you...
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