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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey i'm with this guy from college for 4 years not exactly into relationship or anything. i feel on part of me likes him but the part wants me to be away from him.he criticizes about the way i think and has given me points to improve about myself which were definitely useful.but he thinks i'm hot and just wants to sleep with me given a chance and if i agree to.we made out once but when i said i was not ready he didnt push me.he keeps talking about other girls and how sexy they look.i'm so confused about him. do he like??do i like him??but he's not very successful in his career. his friends who are our mutual friends make fun of us together.when he speaks to me he looks straight into my eye and everything around goes still for him he just does not care .am i misinterpreting anything??i dont want to ask him and make him think that i'm onto him.in our latest conversation he said i should flirt with someone. so when i asked him whether he's hinting to himself he said "its your choice who u want to flirt with" . does all this mean anything??plz help!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): Personally I don't have time for people who are quick to criticize and tell people how to "improve", people like that usually don't follow their own advice and prefer instead to project their insecurities onto others.
He's giving you a lot of mixed signals but to be honest it doesn't sound to me like you're interested in him in that way, I mean if part of you wants to be away from him then he's not the one for you.
As long as you feel secure about what you want from him, if anything at all, you should ask him what is going on. It sounds to me like he is interested in you in some way. The only way to know for what, is to discuss it with him.
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