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Guys input..would you find me attractive?

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Question - (3 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *aina182 writes:

This question goes mainly to any guy. Would you find me attractive? I'm smart, responsible, tall, a little fat, and i have a nice smile. I'm also very pretty and i'm also very nice. I think what take most of the guys back is that i'm a little fat, i'm not that fat maybe 20 pounds from normal. So i want to know your opinions, would you find me attractive?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009):

You're smart, responsible, tall, meaty and have a nice smile. You're also very pretty and very nice.

If you fit my perception of beauty and connection, then you would be attractive. Otherwise, I am indifferent to you. Your personal description lacks in depth. It's no better than saying that a piece of paper is flat, white and perfect for pencil drawings.

IF you had said:

"I enjoy reading a wide range of literature, from biographies of the misunderstood like Empress Tsu Hsi and Benedict Arnold, all the way to Harry Potter and Red Dwarf. Though I can recite Macbeth line by line, I absolutely hate Shakespear. Oh woe is me.

I do not watch television, as I spend my days working as a daycare manager and evenings in a gym. My Spring and Summer is spent hiking the Diaz Vista and The Chiefs. In the Autumn, I prefer taking long walks at UBC to watch the maple trees shed its leaves and Winter building snow kitties and make birdhouses or pop open a bottle of Port.

I'm quite tall and on the meatier side - about 20 pounds more than what other women around my age are. I have a bit of a tummy and some stretch marks on my inner thighs. Mind you, I am well groomed and everyone says I have huge eyes and am curvy. Am I? I guess you'll have to see for yourself!

So what do you think? Am I attractive to you so far?"

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If you had said something like that, I would probably answer, "Personality-wise, you sound fantastic. Physically, 20 pounds is nothing. A little tummy and stretch marks is fine by me. The big eyes and curvy is a bonus. I prefer my kitties curvy. Meow!"

^o^

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