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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello everyone im 16 years old and iv been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years on and off. we have so much going on and so many problems. wheb we first started to go out in july of 07 everything was perfect. then towards september of 07 things got bad it was fighting and nonsence. we broke up for good in march 08 for about 6 moths i did my thing and he did his. we didnt talk at all beside here and the to say hi. during those 6 months i had a bf and i realli mean everything was perfect i dnt even kno why i broke up for him to go back out with my ex. well in spteber of 08 my ex got really sick and called me outa the blue and we stated to talk all the time, then i broke up with the kid i was goinbg out with for him. we we beck out and things we awesome. then here came the fighting and everything again. i love this kid so much id do anything for him. he was my first for everything. and my first real boyfriend. wen things started to get bad again it was cuz he alwasy wanted to be with his friend and not wanna be with me. he just ignore me and everything, then that ended and it was good again, then he wanted to go on a break, i found out it was because the girl he was talking to when we broke up for the 6 months broke up with her bf and he wanted to her back with her "to treat her the way she treated him" which he told me wad bad and blah blah blah... i was upset when i found out but i love him so much i forgave him..now where fighting again cuz now he dont ever wanna spend time with me and wants to hang out with his friend again to ride his bike to pratice bmx and flat landing. at first i didnt care cuz i was like ok illdo it too. then it became his obsession and thats all he ever talks about. he stood me up 490505 times for this kud and now im getting really fed up to the point i wanna break up for good. i dont diseve this and when i try and talk to him he convinces me that im the wrong one and i believe it, but not anymore im done.....i wanna break up with him but i love him and dont kno what ill do without him cuz i was attached for so long.....please help me please
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): your still young hunny.
live a little. enjoy life and experience different guys, different types of guys...until you find the perfect one.
why settle eith one, and try to make it work?! these are the best days of your life and your only time to be young and try out diferent guys, and go on cute dates and stuff which you go on less and less of as relationships get longer.
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