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*elijodan
writes:I am a 38yr. old mother of 6, 4 of my children from my present boyfriend. We have been together almost 9 yrs. Ever since I can remember, my boyfriend has cheated on me, at least with 2 or 3 or more women for every yr we've been together. You're probably wondering why are you still with him? To be honest, I keep saying to myself that it is because of the children, because honestly, how can you even have any trust, respect, and love in a relationship that consists of pure lies and cheating?Well my question is, how does one know whether it is the right thing to move on or not? Should I just tough it out and hope and pray that things might one day get better. I love him so much and become enraged every time I find out about another woman that he is trying to have sex with. Am I not good enough? I am 8 yrs older than him. Is that a factor? I really wish that things would take a 360 degree turn and we can become a happy family, but I don't know what else to do. I end up continuously going through his phone records online calling all kinds of numbers and making a fool out of myself. 1 out of 10 numbers is a female that claims my boyfriend tried to hook up with them at a bar or something. I'm sickened by this. Please help.....
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reader, felijodan +, writes (9 April 2009):
felijodan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for those who gave me their advice, especially the one "from a male point of view". And, yes, I do know what needs to be done in this situation, it is to walk away. Thanks All...
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (3 April 2009):
 Time to take your life back from HIM. He knows you will take whatever he gives you and like it. I agree, you have to UNSTICK yourself and your children from this situation. It will never get better and even if he says it will, can you trust in what he says?
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