He isnt showing his love to me

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I feel like my boy friend of 41/2 years which is my first of everything is not showing actions for the things he say. for example: he say he loves me but he show other. he dont take my feelings in consideration, when he know the problem or the reason im upset or the reason why were not getting along is because of the things he do. he dont want to talk about it. we have not once went out of town together. he say he's comfortable where were at. i can count on one hand how many times when spent a weekend together,or a whole day together out of almost five years. he always pick me up at at 6pm or 7pm. when i tell him how feel, he dont try to change negative to a positive. he say we got alot of time ahead of us to do things like that, as if know ima be around, he do give me reason to be around. but he dont think that way, he only do what he want,i can cry and plead to him til the point he know im hurt and he dont care or try to make things write i need guys out there to tell me what is this. im 22 he is 21. i try everything. i always gave him what he ask of me. it seems like i treat him opposite of how he treat me. i would give him the world if can. i will never want to hurt him. despite of how he hurt me. but he see no wrong on how he treats me. I stay at home, go to school, and wor.k and he treat me like im just another girl. and when i tell him these things he alway say i didnt say that, he says its how i think. what i do? , or what can i do to get him to do right?, as far as im concern giving him the best of me not enough, im really starting to not care. and just change completly towards him and maybe he will miss what he had. i dont know.

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