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writes:life is very depressing having no freinds and no body eles to talk beside my mother.i am going 30 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind i am very shy.there is no where to go .guys i like always hurt my feelings and insult me.what can i do.i am going end up alone.its always certain i like is the one who ends up rejection me
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (4 April 2009):
life has a plan for everybody...evrything happens for a reason if your sad & insecure & have no backbone some ppl my take advantage of you & also these are not very attractive qualities to land a nice person... if you don't change your attitude about yourself than you will find someone who will take advantage of you & put you down & treat you like crap... why on earth would you let anyone put you down? you need to realize that no one is perfect we all have flaws but you have to demand respect or no one will evr give it to you...because they don't have to...work on you once you've established a good relationship with yourself you won't need a partner to complete you... the most important relationship that you will have in this life, is with yourself... when everyone else is gone out of your life all you will have left is you sweety...the rest will come when the time is right...trust me you don't need anyone right now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): Why are you a whipping post for anyone. You have to stand up for yourself first, get some self respect. Don't let anyone's negative comments get to you. If you feel unattractive, try a new look, exercise, get in shape. You have to take care of yourself. If your on the shy side, then definitly try online dating. A few of my not so perfect friends have had good success with online dating. Don't worry honey, there is someone out there who does want you. You have to look further then the constant company of your mom. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): i think you should for the right guy to come along you may be 30 but youve got years in you yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): Maybe you should get a better outlook on life.
My mother got married at 40 and had me when she was 43 and her life turned out well.
Maybe you should try getting into activities you like. Join a pottery club or something. Don't be afraid to have teh first word. You're just human and ur life is precious no matter what. Online dating works. Put yourself out there. Get a job that u like. Go shopping. Tell yourself ur great everyday and screw the guys that don't see ur beauty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): hi, lovely lady. firstly ure not alone! were here. plse dont try 2 be in a relationship until u learn a way of loving ureself. do something u love that involes people;drama, bookshops,music group,cookery group etc. i knw the nights can be lonely,be greatful u dont have one of those spiteful lost men next to! no my darlin,get up go to the mirror and say 'enough! 2day is a new day! i love me! keep sayin ure mantra. u c my lovely lady those nartsy guys who run u down are merely disposal 'chickenwings' Tell me! wat do u wen u've munched on that stringy thing? do u keep it under ure bed? No! lovely, u dash it in the bin with all the other rubbish! next time ure havin one, think of them! throw it in the crap heap. where they belong! take care lovely.we care!!
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