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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend and I recently tried having sex. We had sex about 2 years ago when i first met him, but we never mentioned it again since it was in a drunken haze. Sorry for the graphic content:This time around he was hard in the beginning but as soon as we tried getting it in, he got soft. I tried giving him oral but it didnt help. He had a few drinks earlier it might be to blame, but i do recall him having the same problem 2 years ago when we frist had sex. he later claimed it that he got soft as soon as i mentioned him wearing a condom, which is true. He got soft after he put the condom to go in. I refuse to have sex without a condom tho. could i be to blame? was it the alcohol perhaps? I dont know how to ask him without offending him, or putting pressure on him..thanks for your replies oxox
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 His "condition" sounds like nevousness on his part. He is young and will get nervous when having sex.
Its not your fault just an issue that happens sometimes.
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