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writes:Hi - got a sex problem. Not a long one, kinda simple really, but it kinda prooving to be a bit of a big problem. Have been going out with a new guy and we've started having sex. I really like him. The foreplay is really good and I get really turned on, and he does everything he should do in bed, but the problem is he has a really big cock. I know what you're all thinking - lucky me! But you're wrong. It was like that at first until I realised it's very difficult for us to have hard sex without him hurting me. He can only go in so far and then he hits a wall and it really hurts me. It's ok when we're just making love and it's slow because then we're careful and it doesn't hurt. But when we're really turned on and we're having really rough sex, it hurts. I know it's just an accident but it's getting me down because nearly all the positions we try, just end up hurting. He can only go on top if we do it in the missionary position and he goes slow. We cant do any position where I lift my legs over his shoulders or anything because he goes in too deep. I've tried going on top but even that hurts slightly. And then when we try it from behind, he has to be really careful because that's when it hurts most. The whole situation isn't helped by me being really petite. I'm only 5ft and a size 8. He's about 6'2. Does anyone know any good sex positions for men with larger cocks so that they dont hurt their partners? Lubrication isn't the issue here, it's definately a case of he's very long and I'm very shallow. We need some positions which aren't all about depth of penetration. Help?
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reader, pure shade 5  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 This is similar to the problem me and my wife had. We just had a lot of foreplay and slowly worked it in. Sure it takes some pratice but after all the pain it should work out in the long run and like someone aready said, have u had a orgasm even if it is on your own time. Try masterbating get to know your self better and just try to have fun. I bet u are a lovly girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): You talkin' bout Zach Krausman? Yeah, he talks about you all the time on madoshi. We all think you should join in the conversation, with all we hear about you and how good you are in bed and everything. So which one are you, Jessica or Tiffany? Or Michelle? We get all of Zach's girlfriends confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): when he is on top in missionary, dont put your legs up! put them down straight on thebed and push your hips up. his dick wont beable to go in that deep! good luck.
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reader, always.curious.ray. +, writes (3 April 2009):
 okay well ive been sleeping with this guy who is 6ft 2inchs. and im only 5ft nothing. and im about a size 9-11. what we do because he has a really big dick too is when do alot of foreplay! like ill suck his dick and he'll finger me until he can get 2 fingers in and we use alot of lube! and we just work it in slowly until i feel alright to go all the way in....so good luck!
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