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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently got back with my ex. We had broken up before because he cheated on me, and it has taken us a long time to get to a good place to start over. However, the girl that he cheated with is still in our lives. We hang around all the same groups, and she is now with another guy. I somehow always feel like he is jealous of the guy she is with now.He has told me that he loves me, and that things with us are just different and better now than it ever was. I still keep having this nagging feeling that he still has feelings for her.Their relationship had ended from her decision. I have talked to him about this before and he has said he understands why i am so cautious, but i really have nothing to worry about as he really does not care about her and that hes simply not jealous of the guys shes with as he thinks shes a horrible person.Am i just having trust issues here? Or are there some sort of signs i should look out for that he still likes her?
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 Why are you two hanging out with the same people if you know she will be there? If you are trying to let go of the past, everytime you see her, it is going to bringall those old feelings back to you. STOP hanging out together and find other friends to be with WITHOUT this other woman around.
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