A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I don't know if I like this guy?? He is a friend I guess we are close, we've known each other for 3 years yet I just feel I don't know him. I feel he's desperate for sex or whatever, he always speaks to me about gals and how hot they are and he says I'm hot too. We just kissed once. He is so sweet and all the next day he becomes all corny and starts finding fault. He knows me so well unlike others he just knows what I think so perfectly. Is this love or just infactuation? I don't think I have a future with him though, am I right?? Please help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (3 April 2009):
One big sign is that he is still looking at other women. This is a sure sign that he is not moving forward in your relationship TOGETHER. You probably want something different than he does. Talk to him and ask what direction he sees you and him going in. Love? I am sorry to say, this is not love. You and he need to have a talk and come up with a compromise you both can live with.
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