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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am not sure if this guy is interested or not. We have known each other for about a year, we work together, we chat all the time, he always asks how I am and seems to be showing an interest, he has my telephone number and send me messages now and again, we kissed a couple of weeks ago but he has never asked me out, however, he is always a bit guarded when I ask him questions, he never seems to really answer and just switches it back to me, he is very confident and well, he loves himself, but I kind of like that about him, he has hinted about us getting it on again, I take it he means at work and when he wants. He sometimes gets annoyed if I am talking to male colleagues but when someone else asked me out he seemed cool with that. Is he interest or is he just pretending? I mean if he was interested he would ask me out, unless I have read him won and he is shy or scared I will knock him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): I wouldn't continue kissing a guy that won't even ask you out on a date. Right now it appears that he'll take what he can get from you but doesn't want to be your boyfriend. This can escalate quickly into becoming a friends with benefits situation where you end up feeling used and strung along. If he were really interested, he wouldn't be cool with other guys asking you out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): I would be curious about the fact the he seems to guarded about answering questions about himself if I were you. Make sure he doesnt have a wife and/or girlfriend that he's trying to keep you from finding out about. And if all is clear there then why not just ask him out yourself? There's no harm in that. You could make it simple like ask him to your place to watch movies or have dinner. Good Luck!
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