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writes:I am so unhappy.to the point were i am on anti depressant cry everyday and im so lonely. I have a 4 year old child and i just dont enjoy life. It all because i have suffered 3 years of mental abuse from my ex. Hes made me feel like i dont matter .from the jokes.hurtful comments and the things hes done to me. I dont know who i am anymore ive turned into someone who worrys bout everything.i just want to sleep all the time cos im so tired of over thinking an analizing my life.if i can sleep then thats my break from it all. I did everything 4 him and i just want someone to take me in their arms and look after me. Weve been spilt up 6 months and there isnt a day that goes by when i dont understand why hes done this to me. All he does is go round having fun charming other women. And yet he has no idea what state hes left me in. To the point that i think i am a lost cause!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): No honey you are not alone. I am 27 and i feel the same way. I had someone do the exact same thing to me. Now he has big parties and friends over every night. I have two small kids and it is hard for me to enjoy life with them because i feel hopeless. I am to the point that there is no one on the earth for me. i took care of this guy and waited on him and then he decides that is not good enough. He told me how worthless i am and i will always be that way. How i will never be anything but a lonely piece of ----. I gave this person the best years of my life my early 20s. i have tried anti depressants. and the only thing that help with is making you feel like a zombie. I wish I had someone to just hold me and love me. I don't so don't feel sad there are alot of people who feel like you do. if you want to ever talk just send me a message.
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (3 April 2009):
Your not a lost cause. See he can go out and charm women and have a good time becaise he is a heartless.....he said all those things to you for a reason. That reason is so u don't go anywhere and will always sit around and be sad. Basicly he broke u down. He wants u to hiself but wants to date other women. Your giving him what he wants!! Doeant it make u mad that ur not enjoying life? U should. U should call up some friends and go out. If u don't have any have someone watch ur child hit up the mall get something nice to wear and go somewhere were u can meet someone. Don't let him brake u. Don't let him win, u deserve much better. U just have to be strong and do it! Don't sleep all day wake up take ur child out with u go to the park keep busy u might meet some other single moms and u can have a new friend and hang with her. Keeping busy is best. And remember the girls he's seeing are gaining nothing!!! So why stress over it. Get better for ur self!
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