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writes:Ok so I'm obsessed about a girl. I don't know her that well because I can't keep a conversation for very long. I gaze into her big warm eyes and I loose what I was going to say next or I say something stupid. I often think and pray about her and become depressed for some reason. I gaze into the stars and I wish she was in my arms or I fall asleep at night wishing we could fall asleep in each others arms. I've thought about her so much that now I have a major crush and she's my dream girl, the only girl for me. I would give anything to be with her, comfort her when she needs it. I think the depression is from the fact that Im wishing for something that may not come true becuase I have no idea how to act on it. For the record we catch glimse's sometimes or when im talking to someone near her she looks at my eyes even though im not talking to her. Would it be wise to tell a friend I have a crush on her and that friend can bring it up cassually with her for ex. So I think so and so likes you? or what do you think of so and so? she is one of my classes and I have to do something before the semester ends, also I keep thinking of what to say and either I don't say it or I can't concentrate on the class
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): its simple really. im a girl and if a guy was thinking about me like that much, i would definitley want him to tell me. even if she rejects you, what do you have to lose?just tell her how you feel. for example:"you know, this might be pretty out of the blue, but i just have to tell you, i really like you, i cant stand having you not know, so there. ive told you, would you maybe consider a movie or something sometime?"thats perfect, if a guys said that to me, i wouldnt be able to say nogood luck buttercup :)
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 April 2009):
Unless you are 13 or under I don't think the "My friend fancies you!" method will impress any girl.
This is one of those situations in life where you just have to be a man and get on with it.
Next time you are talking about something with her just tell her she looks really beautiful today, and then ask if she would come out for dinner with you. Swap numbers and take her out.
Don't come out too early with all the stuff you have told us or it will scare her off. No girl likes to be told on the first date that the guy is in love with them and will DIE if she doesn't marry him. Give her a chance to fall for you before you tell her how you feel.
Good Luck!! xx
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