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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: My bofriend and I had been together for 2 and a half yrs. 3weeks ago he left I am in love with him but I now question how he felt and it is killing me I have ask him to come home a number of times and he want. He just says once he has had it he is finished. Its killing me I just don't know what to do. We have had our problems but its nothing we can work threw. I am lost please help? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): Honey it sounds like you messed up and its over. Although you love him, move on and if he really wants to come back he will. It will take time though, and giving him space. It would be best i you moved on though and just keep going.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 April 2009):
If he says it's over for good even after you talking to him and trying to fix things then maybe you should give him some space, or even move on.
The last thing that will make him want you back is if you are being needy and begging for him to come back to you.
It sounds like his mind is made up and you are just making things harder for both of you.
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