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She's hot...then cold and I want to avoid getting hurt again!

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Question - (28 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *akeee writes:

Yeah im confused right now...so there is this girl who i used to date 3 months ago and i really liked her but the last time i saw her was on our last date back in january. Since then she hasn't been so close anymore she would text every once in a while and i have no clue what happened, but recedntly she is caring about me and flirting with me big time, im wondering why now? Does she really want me back? or is she just doing this because she is feeling lonely and has nobody now. Im scared to make a move cause i dont really understand what does she want. I am also wondering if i should ask her why are you back in my life? Please help me asap i need to figure this out. i cant stop thinking about her...i want to avoid getting hurt again =-(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

I'm sorry you feel that way dude. In my eyes, it sounds like she just wants someone to hang out with again, because maybe she is missing the thing that you gave her to fill that void of emptiness. However that doesn't mean that you should make a move. It is hard to accept to want to go with something like this again because if you feel that way and she does too, then are you guys really missing each other, or are you missing the space that you guys filled in for each other?

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