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Should I risk our friendship and hope that he wouldn't just use me for sex etc?

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Question - (28 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've known this lad for a very long time, since primary school and we're currently in Year 11 now.

The both of us have always had a soft spot for each other, and in Year 9 we became best friends. This fizzled out slightly, but we're still very close.

We flirt a lot, and he's asked me if I'll "link" him. I asked what he meant, and he said "everything a couple would do but not too serious".

Now, I know him and he's a very flirtatious person.

Should I risk our friendship and hope that he wouldn't just use me for sex etc?

Because, as awful as it sounds, I don't know if I could trust him.

There is also another problem. He is one of my close friends exes ; they went out for just under a year. How do you think I should tell her?

Thanks, Katy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

Hi katy, yes that would be awkward. Im not so sure about whether u should take him on as u are not sure if u can trust him. I would not sleep with someone i dont really trust, they could just later on go behind your back and say nasty stuff about you

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