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anonymous
writes:Hi aunts and uncles, heres the thing i know it's harsh but i am really starting to hate my sister.she has become so spiteful! this isn't just your typical sisterly thing oh no!way deeper than that.she basically has an eating problem but doesn't see it. she never talks to me and my dad or his partner i reckon she does have a problem with my dad and his partner getting wed this year which is fair enough but she never says anything!my mum died when we were young so obviously it's been tough but we've pulled through then she went away to Uni and i really missed her but we became REALLY close then she moved back home after completing her years at uni and it's all gone to pot.she never talks to me! she always thinks she is fat when she clearly isn't! she's 5 foot 11 and a size 8 but still thinks she is fat! i've said to her if you think that then you must have a problem but she doesn't see it.she stopped talking to my dad AGES ago for nothing my dad was really upset.she always wants family traditions to happen such as christmas easter and so on but when she is there she doesn't want to be there she just texts her friends and everything.when she was at uni she said to me i could talk to her about my mum as she obviously was the in the same boat as me and i suffered alot of depression through high school but now she keeps trying to like palm me off onto websites if i ever get upset i mean i don't as much now and i understand i am on here but i do like helping people.i apologize that this is so long.i just don't want to be around her anymore all she does is like yell at me! and she always expects me to go out she thinks i have no life and that i spend it all the time on the computer when i don't!i work full time unlike her she just goes to schools and talks about charity work and then that can sometimes be only an hour or so i work 3 different times from 8-4:30 or 8-6pm or 9-5:30pm and i recently bought a new car i got a loan and obviously i can pay it back but she's very jealous of the fact i bought a new car and saying how stupid i've been in getting a loan.is it so wrong that i feel hatred against her? because all she ever does is belittle me!i mean i have problems trying to shift weight i hardly eat much because i have a food disorder thing called PKU which means i can only have a certain amount of protein a day and i am quite plump not obese but i do exercise and everything and if i say i feel fat she tells me to basically not eat ANYTHING and just drink water!why does she always shout at me for nothing?is it so wrong that i feel hatred towards her?i understand she's got a food thing going on but she doesn't know it my dad won't say anything because when she doesn't talk to him he gets upset he doesn't know what to do none of us do she just never talks to anyone. besides her friends she won't let me talk to them because she's jealous of me apprently everyone loves me and not heram i wrong to being feeling like this?thank you all in advance sorry about how long it is i didn't realise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Well if someone doesn't eat properly it affects their temperment , meaning that they're more likely to strike out even at those close to them
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. I'd just avoid her as much as you can. Nobody should have to be around anybody that makes them feel bad, sister or no sister.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnope not that i am aware?
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