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Best friend love, or something more?

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Question - (28 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *alum424 writes:

I have a female best friend she means the world to me. She the only person that can make me feel ashamed of the things I do. When I'm away from her I hurt in side and miss her so m uch I know I love her to a point but i like to think of it as a big brother lil'sister kinda love. The feeling go both ways when I haven't talked to her in a few days she get weird and won't talk to anyone. she waits for me to call her.I haven't had a real girlfriend since I met her don't get me wrong I've had sexual partners but I can't seem to keep a girlfriend now. I'm starting to think that maybe she might be what's wrong with me.I've never had sex with her but she still fills me with a since of love that I have a hard time trying explain to people. what I'm really trying to ask is while her and I have no problem with saying 'I love you bro.' or 'I love you sis.' or is the brother sister love a lie that we tell each other to feel safe? I can't se life with out her in it and she told me the samething and yes she here with me as I write this.

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A male reader, malum424 United States +, writes (30 April 2009):

malum424 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

malum424 agony auntThank you both for your thoughts.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

wow well you two should just get together bf/gf and be done with the big bro/little sis thing, enjoy life together thats what its all about. good luck and its refreshing to hear a good story on here.

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