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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm nearly 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We are in love and are more than ready to have sex. A few months ago we tried to have sex for the first time (I was a virgin). The problem is that it hurt so much. I know that the first time will always hurt, and that bleeding/slight tearing is part of the norm. However, its now a few months onward, and it still hurts just as much, to the point that i have to stop him because the pain is too much to handle. I still tear, and bleed each time. We do all the things people suggest, lots and lots of lube, going slow, making sure i'm not too dry, lots of fore-play etc. None of it has worked. The other thing is that I've always had a 'smaller than usual' vagina (to the point where fingering could hurt) and he has a very large penis. So the physics of it is a major part of the problem.What can I do? My boyfriend is being so understanding and saying that he doesnt care, and that he'd still be with me even if we werent doing anything sexual, but I love him too and I want to make him happy. Is there some kind of exercise/mechanism that can help me stretch my vagina? Has someone else gone through the same thing as me and found the answer? Please help, because I want to make my boyfriend as happy as he makes me.Thanks everyone.
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