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writes:I'm 17, and my boyfriend and I are ready to have sex. I have been with other guys, and experimented with myself and I have never been able to find pleasure out of anything. I get really aroused and then nothing. My boyfriend wants to please me, and I'm really tired of faking it for so long. But I really want to feel something. I've tried almost everything... Is their something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): my girl has simmilar problem, but in the end she always reaches the orgasm. I have to be really very very patient. It takes 10-80 (usually 20-45 minutes)!!! Only way how she is able to get this is by licking her clitoris. And I can say, it is very hard to lick it for an hour but I love her so it is worth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Ahhh no worries. I had an ex gf who was like this and it took her 3 months to tell me she had problems with men finding her G-Spot.
Im gonna be quite blunt now but hopefully its not too much for you.
The best thing he can do is finger you (but make sure your either lubed up or your wet already. if your not wet just get him to lick you for a bit) and for goodness sake, make sure his hands are clean.
There is the G-Spot which should be around a finger length in that can be identified by a roughish patch of skin and if you are lying on your back, it is at the top of the vaginal canal so its perfect to stimulate during fingering.
Get him to use his middle and index finger to do the fingering whilst using his thumb to stimulate your clit.
As for the sex part, my ex said 2 positions were best depending on what she wanted - missionary (with her on back and her legs over my shoulders) and doggy (i dont know why but apparantly it felt like i was going deeper so that might work for you too).
hope that helps
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