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writes:I know this guy who truly loves his 4 year old daughter and doesn't want to do anything to ruin his relationship with her, but he doesn't love the mother. Is there any way he can still be in the daughter’s life without being in the mother's? Here's the thing he still lives with the mother but is not married to her because she is no longer fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Thing number two I really love this guy and we've been hanging out with each other behind everybody's back because my parents don't like him and he doesn't want to ruin the relationship he has with his daughter. What do I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Hi Hunny
Before you go any further, Ever heard the line my g/f or wife doesnt understand me!!!!!So his g/f is no longer any fun..Well she has a 4yr old to take care of sweetheart while he is out and about with you...He really shouldnt be talking to you about this if he is not happy with his home situation and is serious then he should be talking with his g/f..He isnt being honest with her love, And thats really important when there are children involved or not for that matter..The only way he will ever know how things will go from here is to talk and open up with his g/f, Putting this on you when you really cant help his situation is not fair..If he is not happy at home then its at home he needs to deal with it hunny, Plus take into account he is making time to be with you when he could spend this time with his daughter, He isnt being honest and this would concern me that he could do this again when he felt like his partner was no fun anymore. TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXX
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