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Should I date the guy that used to use me?

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Question - (28 April 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this boy, who used to use me but now i believe he has feelings for me. . . I still have feelings for him. But he hurt me so much last time, i dont want it to happen again

What should i do?

Go with me head?

or my heart?

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A female reader, btflower United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

btflower agony aunti have been in the same situation. this guy used me and hurt me bad, then about 6 years later appeared up again and wanted to act as though nothing had happen. i have feelings for him but i also know how bad it hurt before and chose to let it go by. use you HEAD. you're a smart lady. Don't set yourself us to get hurt again.

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A female reader, HopefulYouth United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2009):

HopefulYouth agony auntdarling go with your head. ive spent the last four months believing a friend of mine could change. ive went through alot lately. i finally went with my head. told him i wanted nothing to do with him. im happier than ever and stress free , in a situation like this , best to trust your head, those doubts are there for a reason, trust them. good luck sweety x

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A female reader, bradley United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

 bradley agony aunthe will do it a gain, use your head

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A female reader, bradley United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

 bradley agony aunti would fine someone that wouldnt do that. he will do it again to you. do you really think he cares for you or do you have any dout in your head be safe

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A female reader, bradley United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

 bradley agony aunti would fine someone else. he will do the same to you again.yes its hard but you dont need to be treated that way.i have gone through it, fine somone that you know wont do that to you be happy

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (28 April 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntI also say choose your head. Unless you wanna be used again..

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntgo with w/ your head. i would date him b/c your more then likely always going to have .... is he using me?? in the back of your head. if you genually feel as if he wont be using you, then go ahead and go for it. but if you dont think hes changed, i would stay away.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

Go with your head on this one. If he's used you before he'll use you again.

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