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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex and i broke up 6 months ago. But since then we keep seein each other.but we arent together! I love him and want more. He says he loves me i know he real him and yet we spend a nice evening together. We talk. Cuddle. Make love.not just sex its like we really connect!go out 4 meals. But then i try and repeat it and hes too busy! Its like he only wants to come when it suits him. This has gone on since we spilt. We spilt cos after 3 yrs on/off togetheq i only saw him 3- 4 times a wk. No hols togethers no talk of moving in together etc! He lives 30 mins from me and he says he loves me so much and yet he says he dont know if he could move to my town ever! Ive told him now to please dont contact me anymore as i cant take it anymore! I feel unloved and neglebted. By the man that i just want to be with all the time! The final straw came on sunday when he text me to say could he come sunday nite! I hadnt heard from him all wk not to see how i am or anything! So i said he had a cheek just texting me to come when he wanted i need more i told him! His response was just chill out your going way over the top cant we just have a nice time! I said no we want differents and that im unhappy when i cant spend time with u properly! Am i asking to much? He last text was i never meant to make u unhappy im sorry.i dont get him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): I think the problem here is that you are thinking he's your boyfriend because you guys are still having sex but he's made it clear he's not. You broke up! You both want different things from this relationship, he wants sex and you want a relationship.
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