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writes:Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and less interest in me and even though he says he loves me I have that feeling he's going to cheat.My ex boyfriend and I are in the same friendship groups so I'm always out with him and we are just friends, nothing has ever happened between us whilst I have been with my current boyfriend but lately my feelings for him are all over the place. He's been flirting with me a lot and cuddling me when we're out and he told me to my face that he had feelings for me again, I said to him nothing would happen as I'm with someone, but ever since then I can't stop thinking about him.Right now, my boyfriend is out and ignoring me (which is usually the case) and I'm finding my ex is more of a boyfriend to me than my real one!I really don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend, but I think his lack of attention is making me go elsewhere. I've told him time and time again that I feel unappreciated and nothing changes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): look him in the face, tell him to sling his hook (or any words you prefer), spin on your heel and walk away. Save the tears for when your out of his view.Show him you have some pride, show him that he miss judged you, show that loser you are not prepared to be a piece of s**t on his shoe.Afterwards go home have a dam good cry, delete his number/email whatever you have.Pretty yourself up, show that loser what he lost, and feel good when he comes crawling back and you say go away.If you can do that then i have respect for you young lady.The feelings you have for him will sharply dissapear, once you make the break and see him for what he is.
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reader, say_anything +, writes (28 April 2009):
 in my opinion, you can do better, you don't need this and you should dump him because he sounds like a waste of your time and energy!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 April 2009):
Well of course your boyfriend is going to treat you like crap!
Why should he put effort in to keep you when you'll sit and take it no matter what he does?
He knows he can cheat on you, ignore you, and do anything you like and you'll be there when ever he is in the mood.
You know this isn't right and you are staying with him just for the sake of it.
Guys can only continue to use you IF YOU LET THEM.
Dump him, give it a go with your ex, or even better stay single for a while an get some self respect.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Mr Me  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 My two cents? Dump your current boyfriend and get with this new friend. Why?
Because your current boyfriend has cheated on you _3_ times and you still come back to him. This is bad because he knows that he can cheat and not worry about loosing you... this is bad news! You need to ditch him regardless. And your friend is honestly interested in you, so something tells me he is going to treat you incredibly well.
Soo, yeah... ditch the zero go with the hero, if you will.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (28 April 2009):
 if you think hes cheating, chances are he is. women can tell. leave him bc he doesnt love you if he is laying w/someone else. he obviously has no concern over the relationship if hes ignoring you. that is alot of cheating tou have put up w/ and u do not deserve this as you have been faithful to him. leave him and be w/ someone who treats you well. he doesnt deserve your love pr anything you do him. itll be hard for you as you love him, but hun he doesnt love you if he is off cheating.
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