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reader, auntsallyhelpsU  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 your no longer a virgin but we wont chop your head off for it. Dont worry I remember thinging my first time I wonder if my mother could tell but she could not. Keep safe and well.
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reader, chibvukubvuku  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 it may seem hash what all these guys are saying but its a fact that you are nolonger a virgin, consider the fact that you have done it using different positions and it has been pleasurable, my dear that means that you have had sex.
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reader, pebble +, writes (29 April 2009):
 The penis was in your vagina, whether you still have your hymen or no you are NO LONGER A VIRGIN. It doesn't matter that it didn't go all the way in or that you didn't bleed, your virginity is gone.
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reader, cleeowls2  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 u not a virgin any more now stop teasing him and go all the way. i feel sorry for him he must got blue balls now lol. im jk but u not one any more virgin mean no penis been in u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): i can't believe we are still getting asked that question! i would have thought that in this day and age responsible consenting adults would know the difference between being a virgin (never having a penis enter your vagina) and not (have had a penis in your vagina)... sorry to be so brash. if we are still getting questions like this evidently we as a country are doing something wrong.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Are you sure you still have the hymen intact? Mine broke at school playing hockey of all things. I am sure you would remember if you felt an odd twang and a little blood in your pants after sports or whatever. Even in that situation, you are still a virgin until a penis enters, that's the true definition.
Otherwise I guess you'll soon find out next time you are together and you have what you think of as full sex.
Fiona
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Hi thanks for the responses guys,
but i mean medically and physically am I still a virgin because it didnt go in all the way and i didnt bleed???
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (28 April 2009):
 To put it bluntly and answer your question: have you lost it? OH YESSSSSSSSSSS
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): If you were so worried about this, why were you doing this? I'm not an angel myself, just saying.
Hymen is not the indicator of virginity. www.coolnurse.com
Whether you have consensual sex or not is.
You are no longer a virgin. I hope you lost it to someone who was special!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Old chinese ploverb: Virginity like balloon - one plick, all gone.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (28 April 2009):
Let me give some friendly perspective. On one hand you said you wanted to keep your virgininty; perhaps because you hadn't known him long enough? On the other hand you let him slightly insert his penis.
There is no difference psychologically from what you have done to having proper sex. As already said, please be sure to use condoms. You already know the feel of sex and won't be daunted by having his body so close either.
Just relax and enjoy next time.
However please be warned that in the future not many lads would do that, most would want to have proper sex and none of this trial and error stuff. Many would have full sex without asking so to speak, so please be careful.
Fiona.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (28 April 2009):
 I think the very fact that you have asked this suggests that deep down you know the answer!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): you are no longer a virgin (sorry).
Star.x.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Yup, You have. When penis goes into vagina it means your virginity is no more.
You should be using condoms now that you are sexually active. There are a lot of nasty diseases out there, and some can kill you.
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