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writes:Ok - I understand that the general consensus is that is ok to date and even possibly marry your step-brother. But please here is my situation - and help me out.I am 21 - he is 23 - he is in the Navy and came home on leave for two weeks - and this is the first time I have ever met him. His father and my mother have been dating for a year, and are planning to get married in August 2009. I've fallen head over heels in love with him. And he has with me as well. He is amazing, and we stayed up talking all through the night almost every night that he was home for his 2 week leave. We've kissed, but not made love yet. He would marry me tomorrow if I let him, it's that instant head over heels love that one only dreams of happening. He swept me off my feet - and I can't help but want to be with him so bad.But - would it be MORE right to get married before our parents do? I mean, would that make it LESS taboo possibly? And when we tell our parents - should we expect them to hold off on the wedding, or how do we even tell them? There are no other issues stopping us, except that he will be my step-brother in August. I do not want to rush into a marriage, and I dont think that it would even make a difference considering that our parents are already making plans to get married - so everyone would know what we were up to.Help!
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reader, Hemans +, writes (29 April 2009):
Hemans is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank youi Paul33 - I didnt want to have to rush into anything - I just wanted to do the right thing by my family, and by him.
Thank you for taking the time to help me out :)
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reader, paul33 +, writes (29 April 2009):
i think ou should wait as well.. Nuthin wrong with waiting just give it some time.
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reader, Hemans +, writes (29 April 2009):
Hemans is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow...thank you RaeMay - we have discussed it now and we are in agreeance to tell the parents before they get married. Thank you so much for your opinion, and taking the time to reply. Take care.
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reader, RaeMay +, writes (29 April 2009):
 i think that it would be better to wait untill your parents are closser to the wedding. get married to him after your parents do. but tell them before they get married. theres nothing wrong with marrying him. because your not blood. who cares if everyone knows whats going on with you and him. they should understand if they have ever been in love. i think next time he comes back from the navy together you should tell your parents.
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