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writes: well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a lot of sexual tension and in the end met up and went for it big time,now im feeling guilty he has a family of his own and does not know im now hankering feelings for him, we talk everyday even whilst hes away woking, i know ths would cause an enormous amount of upset if i pursued he relationship i darnt tell him how i feel i cant not talk to him eithr beause everyone would want to know why im so stuck i dont know what to do,. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Main Man +, writes (4 May 2009):
Remember your your step-nephew is not a blood relation. If he's over the age of 18 then have a talk with over a drink and tell him about your feelings for him. If he feels the same about you make sure you or he has got some condoms because you are of child bearing age and you do not know about his sexual history. This will reduce your changes of getting pregnant or catching a s.t.d.
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reader, i wanna love u like mad +, writes (28 April 2009):
i hope your stepson isnt under aged! that could be awquard if one of your family members found out. and did you say he had children? if he does then you should really give this up. it could hurt alot of people and it might be difficult but its so important that you try and avoid seeing him as much as possible and stop calling him. but dont just cut your nephew off. you need to to tell him how important it is that you stay apart.
good luck with your situation x x
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