A
male
age
30-35,
*otmoney13
writes:Hey everyone guess who!!1 it's me lotmoney13!!!! a desperate questioniest at this sight!! LOL!!! if any of my readers read all of my questions (which please read them and help me out) it all really adds up to one question. Am I chasing a guy I will never get? I really love him so much, yet it's really hard to know. He's right there every day at school and it's not changing and I can't or won't do a damn thing to let him know how I feel. He's a junior, I'm a freshman. He cares for me, I care for him. We are friends and that might never change. He'll be graduating soon and what will I still be doing? Being a sophmore going on to junior while asking myself everyday if I let my heart down........, did I make the right move not making one at all?, will it end a fairy-tale?, will I ever be happy without him?..... or is it just a phase..... please everyone this is one problem that I cannot figure-out or express without consequences, on my own, so I'm asking for guidance...... Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, loveshercola +, writes (16 October 2008):
As much as I hate to say this, please don't waste your high school years on guys. Focus on education and getting ahead so you can make money! You have your whole life to find love and only so many years to earn money to retire on. Think about that. High school romances rarely last. I was in a relationship from the age of 15-25 and I HATED it. I couldn't escape it. Everyone figured we'd 'always be together' so we stayed together for that reason and it was crazy.
Another thing, if you are in an unbalanced relationship where one of you is more into it than the other, you'll always have doubts and trust issues and that's not good to base a relationship on, either.
*hugs* Good luck in school!!!
|
