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30-35,
*francy
writes:I am in love with a guy whom I hardly know, we go to the same university. He is also interested in me but all I want from him is not a relationship with with him but just sex. How am I going to explain this to him when he asks me out for a relationship? and how do I ask him for sex soon after we become partners?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 I repeat what eyeswideopen asked?
But if you really dont want to date him properly, simply say that. Its not fair to him if you lead him to think its going to be more serious. He might well be happy with friends with benefits, but he has the right to decide that prior to this 'arrangement' that you say you would prefer.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): look you have to be straight forward guys hate girls who beet around the bushes it confuses them because they don' know what you are thinking if he asks or a relation ship just say "look i really like you and your great but all i am looking for is sex. he might want more in which case find someone else if you tell him this in a talk about the subject NOT just out of the blue then if you have a relationship you won't have to ask for sex it will just happen because he knows that is what you want. oh and by the way no offense but if you don't want a relation ship besides sex the closest thing to love you are feeling is puppy love it is probably just sexual attraction, so don't mixed up and definitely don't say i love you to him because that will just confuse him
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 You love him but you don't want a relationship? Why is that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): You are saying you are in love with him but you only want him for sex? First of all that ain't really love. I don't deny it is quite alot of guys dreams to have a "sex buddy" but it would not be advisable to do with someone who ACTUALLY loves you.
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