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writes:I broke up with my bf 6 months ago and I didnt know it was gonna be this bad, I'm very depressed without him and i want him back, but i dont think he would want me back because hes been single for that past while and hes loving the single life hes been going out with girls ever since we broke up. hes moving on, and im still here stuck waiting for him, ive tried everything to get over him i cant be with anyone but him, i cant let any guy touch me, i only want him, and i cant tell him that i want him, im still in love with him and im going crazy without him, i have no idea what to do, hes my first love i cant get over him i tried to let go a several times but i just cant he's a part of me and I'm hurt without him i cant sleep i cant eat properly i just want him next to me..i cant even smile anymore, i always have a fake smile on my face because i dont want anyone to know how i feel i keep everything to myself but deep down im gonna explode.
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (17 October 2008):
 I understand how you feel. It's sad and the first love is always the one which hurts most. It's truly normal. After that, most people think the second love wouldn't reall hurt as much. Hang in there, sweetie. I assure you, after some waiting and depression, you will find someone deemed better and move on. Some just move on faster. My dear, you absolutely have to move on and it just comes naturally. So relax and I know the fake smile phase. I went through that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Okay it sounds to me like you are totally in love with him. So if that's the truth, there's only one choice. You have to tell him how you feel. Tell him how you love him and how miserable you are without him. There's really no other choice. And you can't use this "I keep everything to myself" thing as an excuse not to because if you keep telling yourself that you'll never be happy. If you truly love him, you have to tell him and you have to get over those nervous feelings telling you not to. Trust me it will hurt a lot if you continue to keep it in. And you don't want to look back 20 years from now and wonder what could have been. Trust me on this.
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