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*oxy151
writes:Every time I try to have sex, the guy can't seem to enter me :( I don't know if it's because I'm too tight, or he doesn't get hard enough, but it's happened with more than one guy, so I'm guessing I'm the problem. What can I do? How can I make it work next time?
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reader, ggl777  +, writes (22 October 2008):
It could be many things but my guess is that you all don't know what you are doing.. sometimes if you think about it too much you'll be tense and sqeeze the muscles which will make it harder to go in. You need to relax and make sure its hard so it could go in. If you are a virgin then it might be harder to go in but only the first time. best of luck
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reader, thunderchild +, writes (18 October 2008):
 more foreplay!
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reader, foxy151 +, writes (16 October 2008):
foxy151 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i tried it over a year ago with my first bf, and i had this problem, but then i did it over the summer with this guy and it actually worked, so i figured i wouldnt have anymore problems. but now im in a relationship with this guy who i really love and (for the first time) actually WANT to do it with, and im having the same problems as i had a year ago. so not being ready or still being unbroken isnt really the problem. does anyone have any other suggestions?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 October 2008):
 It sounds to me as if you're really not ready to have sex yet. Sex is a very intimate and special way of showing a person how much you care for them. You're most probably tensing up too much rather than relaxing. Once you get into a long term relationship and have deep feelings for the one your with rather than just having casual sex (if you are) then you'll learn to relax more, making penetration easier.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): If you're a virgin, what Eyes says is right - but if you're not, and you suspect the cause is because he's not hard enough, it would be similar to attempting to push a chain up a hill!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 October 2008):
 Some women have industrial strength hymens. A quick procdure at the doctor's office can fix it. But maybe it's God telling you that you are just not ready for sex yet.
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