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Can you be friends with an ex with whom you have recently split?

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Question - (16 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can you still be freinds with an ex who you recently split with ive spoken to him on the phone and get on really well and ive seen him since we split and got on fine then.

Do you think t could work like that

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A female reader, MuffinGirl Netherlands +, writes (16 October 2008):

MuffinGirl agony auntI think it could work in case your relationship was not based just on sex. If it was, wait some time and then try to be friend with him. Friendship with your ex boyfriends can be something really beautiful and special. I suppose you don't want to be with him anymore. So if you don't feel that you're strongly attracted to him, i really don't see the reason why not.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2008):

hlskitten agony auntQuite often it can, yes. As long as you're not harbouring deeper feelings anymore for them. Otherwise it could get messy when they meet someone new.

I'm mates with 2 of my exes, but only because it doesn't bother me when they get with someone and vise versa.

C xxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):

yes definitely as long as you dont let your feelings get in the way of your freindship.

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