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*abiigee
writes:so i have a problem...i have a friend we been really close friends for bout almost 5 yrs yea we had our ups and downs but its nothng we couldnt overcome....but yea any who this time i have a problem and i dnt know how to slove it...heres the thing: about 2 weeks ago or so this friend of mine had a problem bcuz her boyfriend's friend who is a gurl had a crush on him, and she wasnt liking it. so that gurl switched to our highskool and were in this dance grup thing together right??and yea so that gurl started talking to m.e well we had to bcuz were in the same group. welll ne-who i told my friend about it and she just stopped talkin to me out of nowhere like what the f**k.... i know its wrong cuz me and that gurl are talking but its like, whatevers, c'mon its not like im becoming best friends with the gurl....and yea i really think this is the cause of me and my friend talking...what should i do i need help
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reader, babiigee +, writes (16 October 2008):
babiigee is verified as being by the original poster of the question thhnx alot botth of u guy been a huge help
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reader, kody08 +, writes (16 October 2008):
Well i think you need to tell your friend that she need an attitude check not to be mean but let her know how you feel tell her that if we were trully the friends you thought then this would be something stupid tell her there is nothing you can do about her being in you dance thing but she will not replace her maybe she feels that that will happen well hope everything turns out good with you and your freind
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): I know exactly how you feel. I have been in the same situation. I was best friends with this girl for 8 years of my life and we always told each other we would grow old together. Though when she acted the way your friend does when I spoke to girls she hated we would fight. Now I'm older and I look back and laugh I used to get really upset when we'd fight but now I see she was insecure and selfish!!! Your friend sounds the same so let me try and help you. First of all do not let her see that she has pissed you the fk off!! Just act like you don't give a fk cuz that will show her you can move on she will only come and suck up to u in the end ... But let me tell you something in the eight years I was friends with this girl I always did what she wanted and one day I didn't do what she wanted so to get back at me she had sex with my boyfriend and that just showed me she really didn't care so really take a look at this friendship you have is it worth all your hard work in the end? You are welcome to email if you like ... [email address blocked]. Take care
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