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writes:Hi, I am in a difficult situation. My husband asked me if I could give him space. I have done something really bad 3 years ago and I already asked forgiveness from him. I thought he had forgiven me but I think he still lives in the past. We had a fight over this many times and it's high time to give him space. That is according to him. We have two beautiful children and now we have to forget ourselves and focus on the children. Will I give him the space he wants? I am now sleeping in another room. I asked him if I could stay somewhere else but he won't let me. He still wants me around. Now, our relationship is very civil, no hugging, no kisses... I really miss him a lot. Please give me an advice on this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):
You need a professional mediator in here, some one who can guide the conversation and bring out things that might not come out if the two of you just talked.
Your husband will be wondering why this wont happen again. Is anything really different about you, or you just havent had another clean opportunity and dislike being caught?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): I know I'm way too young to give advice. But from what I read, I think you should talk to him. No bloody argument, just talk. Ask him the possibility of your future marriage and if possible, a chance to start a new life - without grudge. A total change. He still wants to have you around, right? So he still have feelings toward you, just maybe your past mistake is the only thing that is still haunting him.
Hope this could help.
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