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writes:Ok, this is going to be long because this has spanned over a year. I'm in college and I met this girl, me and her hit it off fine and I am not one of those guys who does relationships, I just date a lot so this was probably my 4th or 5th relationship with anybody. One because I have trust issues from other past relationships. So we start talking and we eventually start dating, we talk about everything past relationships ex's all that. She tells me that she is not talking to anybody and I told her the same, she says that she just has an ex that messed her up a bit when they were dating which I didn't care about because he was an ex and I was there to try to take care of her and make her forget about him. Well our school has a fall break that lasts for about ten days since we are in North Carolina and the furniture market is down here. So we take a break and she tells me that she is going to Puerto Rico for break, I think it's cool and I say ok go for it. Well I look on her face book and he says that "I cant wait for PR" (puerto rico) so I talk to her and ask her if she is going with anybody and she says no. So I believe her, I just thought that her ex was just being stupid. Ok so long story short she lied to me and he went with her, not only he paid for them to both go together. I caught her in this lie and many other lies. I later found out that it's hard for her to forget about him because he got her pregnant and made her get an abortion but like an idiot I stick around, stupidly in love with this girl. So she eventually ends up breaking up with this guy. and we get back together (I was stupid). Summer comes and she doesn't call me like she used to but she has a habit of not telling me things that will get her in trouble and her excuse that she didn't call me was that she was busy?. Should I take her back? She came back to school after the summer of not talking to me and says that she's changed. I don't know whether or not to say yes or just tell her that she lost me because now I will never have 100% trust in her even if we get back together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean yeah i am leaning towards that, but a lot of things happened to her this summer and its making me feel obligated to be with her. she keeps telling me that shes changed and wont let it be. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): Well join the club you have found yourself one of those typical girls who like guys who use and abuse them. Really I have been there and learned the hard way arround ethier change your attitude and learn to use and abuse or change your girl. I would like to change the girl but cant do so because of our kid
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): If you can't trust her 100% then the relationship wont work, a relationship is based on trust, you're suposed to be able to tell your partner just about everything you know? I'd say move on you'll only end up getting hurt, and you don't deserve that.
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