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writes:is their a way to win someone back after they have cut you out of their lives after a break up? I admit and take full responsibility that i was at fault for pushing her to the point of annoyance but all i received was a text saying lets call it a day and then she blocked my number so we couldn't even speak about it. It's been three weeks now and nothing. I have sent her two emails with no reply. We got on so well before so it was a real shock for her to act as extremely as she did. I have figured out myself what i was like and what i was doing and it has been a big lesson to me. However I feel sad, angry and annoyed over the way she decided to treat me at the end which dis confirm a lot of what i already knew in terms of what she was like. But i do miss her and wish their was a way of making contact so i can get proper closure if nothing else.. Anyone have any advice foe me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): You could either sit and wait for her to get back in touch or get on with your life.
Right now she's obviously not wanting to risk going through it all again with you - she had enough the first time.
Ok, so you've learned a lesson, but she won't know that. You can now take your new-found knowledge of how not to behave into any future relationships. She's probably learned a lesson too - which is not to get involved with someone who treated her the same way you did.
Put it behind you and move on. Hopefully you're a better person for this experience. Otherwise write her a letter and hope she replies. Email, text messages and telephones are not the only means of communication available to you.
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