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*onbon2003
writes:I am interested in too different guys. They're both great guys with totally different backgrounds. One lives in the area by me who likes me and wants to see how things work out between us. He has no kids but is willing to accept the fact that I do. The other guy I met a few months back and he is originally here where im from but now lives in the florida keys.He has two kids of his own and is also willing to accept mine like his own. But he is not willing to move here with me to see if things will work. But he wants me to go there and i do not want to. SO my question is what do i have to do to figure out which guy is right for me. Im stuck on the decission i have to make. Please some one help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Wait for the one that you know instantly that you would live in a tent with, even if he had a wart on his nose. Why settle for the best option? neither are right for you really or you would not have to choose and deep down you know it. But it's your life and all depends WHAT you want rather than WHO you want. Love may come later if you are patient.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 go and visit the second guy for a weeks holiday to get to see how you two interact on his turf
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): I don't know where you live, but if it was me I'd head for the Florida Keys - provided I could put up with the upheaval of hurricanes. Fishing, diving, warm weather, cold beer, (and the occasional gust of wind) plus a laid back lifestyle - what more could a person wish for? I'd rent out my abode and be off like a shot!
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