He gets very angry and agressive... and I just get upset.

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, and are very much in love. The only issue is that when he is, or we both are drunk we end up falling out. He gets very angry and agressive, although has never been physically violent towards me, whereas I just get upset, which makes him angrier. How can we stop these fall outs? its got to the point where i start to worry before we go out that we're going to end up falling out, which ends up dampening the night anyway. he says its because i nag him, and because he's drunk he overreacts. what can i/we do to stop this happening?

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