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writes:Hey anties and Uncles! I am a breastfeeding mama, and this is my 2nd child, but with this one, all the pleasure I used to get out of nipple play has GONE AWAY!!! EEK! I want it back, but dont want to stop breastfeeding my little girl. I stopped breastfeeding my 1st when he was a year and a half, and I want to try to get that far with my daughter. I used to LLLOOOVVVEEE nipple play with my sweetie, and now, I cant stand him even going there! Any opinions or advice on this matter? Because to me, losing pleasure on my nipples is like losing oral pleasure. And I'm sad:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): I'm not sure I can help, cause I don't have any kids. But it seems to me that your breast have probably been overused (what with two kids, and a busy husband). I don't think you can do anything until your daughter stops using them. Be patient and the sensations will probably return when you finish breastfeeding.
Other than that, try some extra stimulating love play. Wrap strings around your nipples, use ice, candle wax. There's also a nipple rub you can buy in the shops which heats up and makes your nipples feel on fire. In the UK they sell them in Anne Summers shops, I don't know where to get them in the USA but heres the link http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplay_et!letc~ev!10225%7C%7Cet!letc~ev!10226%7C%7C_40151_-1_10225_41874_10001_10225.
You could also get him to try delayed sensation. Get him to play with you nipples as lightly as possible, all day, every day. never quiet giving you the pleasure you need. Get him to keep playing with you until you die from the pleasure. Get him to blow on your nipples. Make sure he uses light touches, so the sensation is very different from the sensation of breastfeeding. Above all experiment, experiment, experiment. Your bodies changed and you need to find out what it likes now. Good luck.
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