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writes:okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's become apparent that he may be having second thoughts about his relationship with her. i'm good friends with her, we both know eachother extremely well, we trust eachother with everything, and were both there for eachother when we need it. a couple of months ago we had a talk about what we really thought about eachother. She told me that i was the kind of guy that she would go out with, and that we were kind of like "soulmates".i really want to be with her, but i don't know what to say or do. she's my everything in life at the moment and i want her to be my everything for ever. so my question is: What should i do to let her know i want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, angel of love  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 I know what you mean about not being so good at the whole dating thing...I have a friend who hasn't had a relationship before...now she does and she's trying to get used to it...I'll just give you a few words of wisdom that was passed on to me from a good friend...be yourself, be real, and always tell the truth...everything else should fall into place...don't rush it...I hope you are happy and that all turns out great...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks.
i'll try and organise something for us to do this weekend. i took her out once to the movies once and we both agreed that it was alot of fun, and that she did want to do it again sometime. however, her boyfriend is really arogant when it comes to her having time with other people. i have talked to her about it in the past, but not in detail. i'll take both of your comments into consideration, they're both really helpful.
i've never been in a relationship with anyone before, so i'm kind of new to all of this.
Thank you for helping, i really appreciate it.
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reader, angel of love +, writes (15 May 2008):
Look...you sound like a really sweet guy! And if you are as close to each other as you say you are then she probably already knows about how you feel. What she needs now is for you to tell her how you feel. Sit her down and tell her exactly what is on your mind and in your heart. Everything...down to the tiny details. If she can feel the compassion and sincerety that you obviously have for her that her boyfriend can't give to her. Get back to me and tell me how it goes.
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reader, angel2311  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 I believe you should let her know but tell her so she has an oppsition. 4 example : tell her what u think about her relationship and let her know that she deserves soo much better. But b4 u do that hang out with her more and throw her hints on how much more compatable you are to her. Don't tell her when she just had a fight with her man cuz she'll feel like your using the fact that they're fighting as an excuse to use her. Instend show her how much better you are and then when the night is right hit her with the truth. You'll have her thinking about you a lot more trust that and call her in 2days to see how she acts. If she's shy talkin to you , you'll kno she had u in mind and use that to meet up with her to se if she feels the same and kizz her with lot of passion. Tell me what u think
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