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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi i was dumped :( i was truly in love but he thought differently i guess its been around 2 months and i just really wont to get back at him so i asked out his enemy and i know this was such a stupid spit full thing to do but i was crazy in love i just wanted to be hurt the way he hurt me but through a couple of days i got really interested with the new boyfriend and started liking him more and more so i nearly forgot about my ex.but he is acting really weird and i thought maybe its was a bad idea going out with him plus i feel really guilty for not really liking him and loving someone els so i dumped him before anybody got hurt.but he wants to know why i dumped him so i say i liked someone els and then he says so does he ,he likes one of my friends but he says he likes me more.now he wants to know who then when i tell him he gos a little quiet but he says he dos not care one bit.then my friend tells the guy i really love that i like him and now he is really chatty and nice and he keeps looking at me is there anything there?my ex keeps trying to say we should be together but he wont take that we are over and i like someone els please in desperate helpthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): It's not clear which ex wants to be with you, since you got two of them. It's also not clear which one you like the best. You started liking your new guy and nearly forgot about your ex until he started liking you again. You truely love your ex, but forgot about him after going out with this new guy for a couple of days. But you dumped this guy because you didn't think you liked him enough.
I know your young, and I know you probably want a boyfriend, but I think your first idea was the best. Take a little time out from both these guys, spend time with your other friends. Stop dating for a while until you make up your mind who you miss the most and who you would like to spend more time with. If anyone asks you, tell them your not dating and you need a little space to sort your head out. Good luck.
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