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writes: why do girls still reject. My friend rejected me even though I treated her like a queen, she knows I'm crazy over her. I'm perfect in front of her, I've done everythin for her. I may not be person person but in front of her I've Neva annoyed her, upset her or anything negative. So why will she reject me? I love her so much...why do girls do this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Replacement +, writes (15 May 2008):
You're being too nice probably. Women say they want a nice guy but what they really want is something confident, independant, and a bit out of reach. Act more distant, don't be such a pushover, don't fall all over yourself trying to impress her. Just be cool and act like she's nothing but another friend to you.
Or, alternatively, move on and find another chick for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Humans are very complicated creatures. We have different interest, opinions, beliefs, motivations and values.
Unfortunately it's not a case of the nicest guy wins the prize. What do women look for. Brown eyes, Blue eyes, Green eyes. A man that is strong, sensistive, compassionate, dangerous, exciting. People want different things. Your a kind person, you try your best. Maybe that's not what this woman is looking for. Maybe she's excited by a dangerous man who will beat her up, steal her money and cheat with her best friend.
This is not the woman for you. You do not have the qualities that she needs to make her feel like a woman. No problem. She's not right. But don't change. You are what you are. You like being decent. You don't want to hit or cheat on a woman. Be patient one day the right woman will come along that wants all you need to give. Stay strong, be good, and wait. Everything that should be will eventually come to be.
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