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writes: how can you tell a guy that you like him but not making it obvious? there is this guy I like but I dont want to make it so obvious that I like him because it would destroy are friendship Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still can't tell him myself he knows from others and I keep avoiding him cause I just can't face him I have avoided him for the last days of school now I don't see him cause we live in different I just can't face him what does that mean
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Hi bubbles, this is a hard question to answer. I think it's because you need to provide a little more information, so that people can give you better advice.
Who is the guy, someone in school, someone in church. How long have you been friends. Do you have any friends in common. Usually it's best just to tell a guy how you feel. Kinda like in a jokey way "hey I think your great, we make such a great team that people are gonna think were boyfriend and girlfriend and I wouldn't have a problem with that." or how about inviting him to do something with you and your parents like ice-skating, the movies or whatever it is that you kids do in this day and age.
Sorry but I'm really crap at flirting. I've always just told a guy how I feel. Or if I'm nervous I just ignore them and refuse to talk to them. (and I'm a grown up) Do you have any girlfriends that you trust that know this boy and might be able to give you better advice or help you to drop hints to him. Anyway good luck...Sorry I couldn't help more.
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reader, c0nfus3d  +, writes (16 May 2008):
now i know this may not be such great advice but....i had the same problem last year. i was completely in love with my best friend but i didnt want him to know because i didnt want him to get freaked out and stop talking to me. well it ended up for the better because i found the most amazing boy ever and he is the love of my life. if you dont want to tell him you like him, i dont think you should try to push for him knowing either. it's confusing and guys aren't good at picking up on things
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